Killing Kittens Party Rules

Let’s get you ready for your event! We just ask for a few things before you attend to:

• Ensure the safety of you and the community
• Uphold the values of KK
• Make sure you have an unforgettable experience

PARTY RULES (IMPORTANT. PLEASE READ CAREFULLY)

To foster an environment that values inclusivity and respects the Kittens- first nature of our events, Guest attendees must refrain from entering play areas unaccompanied. If you are from a cisgender male background, and this perhaps still has a notable correlation with your current sense of identity, we would encourage you to be mindful of the privileges in that when considering whether you can enter these spaces solo.

Treat everyone with respect. No gossiping, no unkind remarks, and absolutely no pressuring anyone to do anything they are not comfortable doing (this violates consent).

Please do not make any assumptions about other people’s gender or physiology. When introducing yourself, you have the option to also say which pronouns you use (e.g. Hello, my name is Emily, and I use she/her pronouns). This is of course not mandatory, and it is up to each individual whether they would like or feel comfortable to introduce themselves in this way.

No phones or unauthorised photography.

No drugs. Anyone found with or using illegal drugs will be ejected from the party and reported to the police. Our door team will be carrying out random bag checks on arrival.

Couples who arrive together must leave together. No Kitten can leave a guest  behind at the party.

All party attendees must wear their masks until 11pm, when play begins…

Our staff are trained and available to help resolve any issues that may occur on the night. If there is something or someone that seems out of place, we expect to be told. Tell us on the night and we will endeavour to assist, or make a report after the event by emailing [e-mail].

RULES OF CONSENT (IMPORTANT. PLEASE READ CAREFULLY)

Consent is clear, continued communication between two or more people. 

It can be given or revoked at any time, and must be clearly sought and given before initiating any kind of physical contact.  

Attendance at a KK event is NOT de facto consent for any and all kinds of touch and or sexual contact. Everyone comes to KK to explore different things, and that needs to be respected.

Non-consensual sex or sexual touching constitutes assault. 

In the world of KK, it’s always the Kittens who make the first move, but consent applies to people of ALL GENDERS. You are not exempt from seeking consent if you identify as a woman or are non-binary or otherwise GNC, regardless of who your attentions are directed towards. Gender identity or historical oppression does not excuse bad behaviour, or mitigate the need to ask for consent.

We recommend using verbal consent as a clear form of communicating at our events. You must ASK before making any kind of physical contact, and if you are wanting to watch or engage in another way with others, you must try as much as possible to determine whether they are comfortable with that.

Receiving a “no” is not something to be afraid of! “Yes” can only have power when “no” is freely available.

The wellbeing, safety and joy of our attendees are of paramount importance to us. We are committed to creating an intentional space for exploration, where if mistakes happen (as they sometimes will do) we can manage, resolve and learn from them as an organisation and as a community.

Concerns or incidents should be reported to trained KK staff on-site. Our hosts wear red LED armbands, making them easily distinguishable. We take any reports extremely seriously. 

DRESS CODE (IMPORTANT. PLEASE READ CAREFULLY)

The dress code at our parties depends on the event. Please go to the event page to see the specific dress code for this event. 

As always though, don't forget your masks - for both online KK House Parties and KK parties!