When you’ve decided to attend a party together we want to make absolutely sure the couple attending the party are who they say they are, so we let the Kittens take control.
The Kitten can bring a guest so makes the ‘online’ approach by making the initial step of clicking ‘Buy Ticket’. The Kitten will then be prompted to select the username of their guest.
So our Kittens are always in control! Toms can absolutely still invite Kittens through chatting but the physical act of purchasing a ticket together will be driven by the Kitten.